Shopping

Took VJ to the Mall today for lunch and shopping . We visited one store and you would think Norm had returned to cheers , they all knew her and were so glad she had come in. The girl is in a wheel chair , but can still shop with the very best . She bought four pieces and I think at this point only one is going back . She always buy something to take back, it require a return trip right . I let her think i don't follow her plan , but after 30+ year together I get it.It's OK with me  she can afford it  and even if she never wear some of the cloths which is a real possibility it is OK .

Not much to report ,the Kid were here last week end and we had a good time , the boys caught lots of fish and HG is so good for a 21/2 year old.The boys are growing so fast it will not be long before they are gone and I hope they & I; I have the same relationship their  father has with him grandmother and grandfather.

Mom is back home from rehab the result of a broken leg bone . she had easy surgery if there is such a thing for a 87 year old  , but the after surgery issue related to the anesthesia was a trip for her and us. I understand it is an issue in most old patients. WHEN ARE YOU CONSIDERED AN OLDER PATIENT? She is home and we will made a few modification to her house and I think it will be a matter of a little time and she will be back good as new. We have someone with her the first month.

We had an interesting time when we ask her to give me a POA and me & and; KJ a living will , no problem with the full POA , but she want to be assured we didn't plan to pull the plug on her life support.

I got my last check from FCB for my consulting contract and I have given notice to the hospital authority that I am gone at the end at the end of this term (SEPT) My point is I will need to find something else to keep my mind occupied. Someone ask if I want to apply for the town managers job , what the hell do I know about that subject   not much  , but may be more than the folk doing it now.

We continue to have inquire about the house , but I don't think even If a buyer were out there the mortgage $$ can be found, not sure what me VJ& the cat would do in the short term if the house sold.

Still have not heard from son #2 , not sure what the issue is or really how to handle it . he has a birthday in a month and I will try reaching out again. I would note this is the same thing that happen with him and his mother ???

Golf game is up∧down but beats sitting in the house , try to play in the AM before VJ gets active. she seem to be stable , but her balance has gone south and she need a wheel chair to move any distance .She maintaining a great attitude and other than sleeping( very restless) we get by great.

Life is good.!